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[quote=Anonymous]Get a house cleaner. Other than that.. I don't know what to tell you. Some men are big man babies and too immature to chip in.

The resentment thing is a big deal.  It wasn't until I stopped working a few years ago to focus 100% on kids and house that my resentment over unfair division of duties (especially the mental ones) started to recede, and that was also after DH picked up more of the mental load.  Also, my kids are much older than your's.  Those first few years were really hard, and there was a lot of resentment on both our parts  - me because I was doing most of the work; him because I was too tired and resentful to want to have sex with him.

Men don't seem to understand that most women don't want to have sex with men whom they don't like or have deep resentment against.  For the most part, if they want the DW to put out, they also need to put out.. in the form of picking up more of the chores.  After I stopped being so stressed out and DH picked up more of the mental load, we started to have more sex.  I have gone back to work now, and DH does a lot more than he used to in term of the mental load since a lot of the physical stuff can be outsourced.
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