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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should know within a few months if you want to marry someone. No more 2 year relationship hoping people will change. I have way to many 40 year old female Co workers who wasted time on relationships[/quote]

It is not panic or give up time, but you do need to get a move on if this is your goal. As one who fooled around for too many years, and pretended that I was 25 when I was really 35, I have some advice for you:

--  As above, you cannot date men indefinitely at this point. You need to find out early on what their dating goals are and cut your losses before you invest too much time in men who are just in it for the fun.

-- You have to start working at meeting men. People who tell you to "just relax" or "you'll meet someone when you least expect it" are wrong. That is great advice when you're in college. It's terrible advice post 30. You have to work at it at this point.

-- It's still a numbers game. Make an effort to meet a lot of men. Let people know you are looking. Use dating services. Go to church. Be proactive!

You can do this OP. There are many success stories here....  I married at 40 and went on to have two kids. I would never recommend this route initially but count my blessings every day that it worked out.[/quote]

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