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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FU.  There are often no signs at all.  Do you think women are stupid?  do you think women want to be hit?  I dated someone 4 years and lived with him for 1 before he threatened to beat the crap out of me the first time.  He raised his hand but didn't hit me.  I told him at the time that if he ever laid a finger on me, I would call the cops and have him tossed out so fast it would make his head spin.

3 years later he threatened to beat the crap out of me again and I ended things. He was increasingly subtley abusive, jealous and control in front of all his friends and family members. If they didn't find it apalling, why should I have?  He was charming when he wanted to be and when he was cruel he was always apologetic and tried to make up for it.  He was always totally into me -  proposed, great ring, wanted to have kids.

This is how they reel you in - smooth in the beginning, isolate you from your own peers, try to get you tied down economically so you can't leave and tie you to them with kids.  It's the rare abuser who starts out hitting you.  [/quote]

Why did you say FU? What you first wrote contradicts your subsequent  paragraphs. [/quote]

NP.  FU = Follow Up.[/quote]

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