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[quote=Anonymous]I sympathize totally. I struggle with AWFUL (like incapacitating) anxiety and though meds control it well, every now and then I need to switch them, or crash, or something. DH has no history with this stuff and is totally confused by it. He's not sympathetic though he's gotten better - the worst thing he said was probably 10 years ago now, which was "this is not a marraige." We generally have a really good relationship. Overall I've learned that he's just not going to be my outlet for this stuff. He's a great dad, partner, everything else - but this he just.doesn't.get. I have friends who do, a wonderful therapist, etc. And I need to have him be the one managing the kids etc when this happens - I know it's frustrating for him and I wish he understood it better, but for the kids' sake it's probably best that he doesn't (one of them is starting to exhibit my type of anxiety). Hope that helps some![/quote]
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