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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to be clear... I'm not gonna sleep with you. So let's get a drink.

Works every time, they lay off but feel like a puss if they don't have a drink with you.

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Right...because it’s her job to manage his feelings. That’s exactly she should be spending her time. 
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This is not managing his feeling.

This is called being clear with your intentions.

Hey I'm not sleeping with you, but lets get a drink and talk business. If you say "hey im not sleeping with you" you lose a client. If you say, hey im not sleeping with you let's get a drink, he knows you are not putting up with shit but you still intent to conduct business.

"when I say drink with you" I acutally mean have drink and talk business like men do all the time.

Do you even work?[/quote]

Do you even work? Who in their right mind says “Hey I’m not going to sleep with you...” to a work colleague? Totally inappropriate. He may be trying to monopolize her time or her in her pants but until he makes a move that is not acceptable to say. You need to brush up on your nuance, tact and social skills.

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Unfortunately women have to say it all the time. I am just up front with men that are trying to sleep with me. Not interested, it the most appropriate response. Actually, HR will not ever listen to you if you have not made it clear that advances are not welcome.

BTW honey, you might think you are soooo interesting that a married man is monopolizing your time at a conference, your not, he has something else in mind. [/quote]

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