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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He grew on me as I got to know him better. Weird circumstances spanning over a decade. I seriously wonder what’s wrong with me - [b]how did I fall so hard for a Mr. Unavailable.[/b]

When I initially met him, instant attraction but I knew he was bad news. Oddly, he reappeared in my life years later. Attraction still there. Still bad news, but I did it anyway. My twenties self is kicking my forties self for acts of colossal stupidity.[/quote]

Because falling for Mr Unavailable allows you to construct the fantasy of a perfect relationship "but for" this one small thing. And it appears you believe in the fallacious myth of "the one".

We decide to allow ourselves to fall in love with people - to give that person the space and time to bond, to look at their good qualities not bad, etc.  We also have the power to take ourselves out of love - which is easier if you haven't fallen for the myth of "the one".

The truth is there are many people in the world to fall in love with.  You should be in therapy asking yourself why you have fallen for someone who gives you so little.[/quote]

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