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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reality is, her career is the one that will take a hit. She’s smart to want to advance herself first because it becomes much, much harder after kids arrive. It’s easy to think now that things will still be equal once kids arrive, but in reality it rarely is. The person who makes less- usually the wife- ends up shouldering most of the childcare responsibilities. She’s very wise to want things to be more equal between you.

Also, since you say “my way is right”- you kind of sound like a crappy partner. Marriage isn’t about proving someone is right or wrong, it’s about understanding the other person and doing your best to reach a compromise. Maybe start treating her like a human being with her own wants and desires, rather than a breed mare. [/quote]

Also want to add, the fact that you are letting your parents dictate when you have children is just more evidence that you aren’t a great partner. She may be hesitant to have kids because she doesn’t want them with *you*. [/quote]

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