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[quote=Anonymous]Here has been many threads on having/not having children, and when to have children. My situation is similar to the OP that posted a couple of days ago with the same title, but a little different. My wife is 34 and still wants to wait. I, on the other hand, want to start now. I make plenty of money to support the both of us. She makes 1/3 of my pay, and wants to advance her degree for a better paying job. She grew up having it instilled in her not to depend on anyone for financial security, but I keep reiterating I’m here for the long haul. I’m 38, the only child, and had two older parents who want a grandchild. She wants to wait until 37/38 for the first. I keep telling her how she affects reproductive health, but she seems to be in an unrealistic state of mind that we will get pregnant right away when we start trying. We might be able to, but I don’t want to take that gamble, or wait that long. How can I get her to see my way is right?[/quote]
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