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Reply to "Walk me through the logistics of setting up your new life if you divorced while your kid was a baby."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP- if either of you are absolutely 110% adamant about divorce, that be one thing, but I was in a very similar sounding situation to yours and my marriage improved dramatically when the baby was around 13-14months old. We still need to pursue marriage counseling to work on communication and lots of built up resentment, but we no longer scream at each other and talk about divorce. Please see a marriage counselor or seek outside help if you think there is anything at all worth salvaging in your marriage. I think for us, the baby was such a hug change and we said a lot of awful things to each other in the early sleep deprived days. And once the baby started STTN it took a really long time to catch up and feel somewhat well rested. [/quote] +1 to this. Your baby is still so new, so if your husband's behavior is a new thing also, I'd give it a few months. If you are committed to divorce, I think things will be okay too. Other PPs have already given you good advice about that. My heart goes out to you - this is tough stuff.[/quote]
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