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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so fed up with my ex wife being high conflict and refusing to even attempt to co-parent.

I'm military, but stationed near the kids and will be getting out next year). The kids needed new military IDs so I had them made. When it came time for drop off, I tried to give ExW the IDs. She refused to take them and stormed off. So a few days ago, she requested I mail them to her. I let her know that I would rather give them to her at pick-up so that I knew they weren't lost or stolen. She didn't say anything. Today, I get a FaceTime call from her phone and assuming it's the kids I answer. One minute I'm talking on the phone with my DD (dear daughter) and the next it's my ExW on the phone yelling. She's telling me that she's going to my command on Monday for breaking the law by not giving her the IDs. I explained that I was giving her the IDs as discussed and reminded her that she refused them when I tried. Then her step mom gets on the phone yelling at me that she will be driving ExW on Monday to command and actually started clapping and shouting. I mailed the IDs this morning.

Last night, ExW was yelling at me because she wants me to pay for half of school supplies and half of school clothes. I asked her where the money went from child support as I have had the kids most of July. I told her that I wouldn't mind picking up some supplies and bringing them to her at pickup but I would not be giving her more money. This set her off. It's not court ordered that I pay for any school supplies as I have them during the summer and she still receives child support while they're in my care.

So then she starts yelling because she's mad that I put our 3 year old in pullups instead of diapers. I told her that was a personal choice and that in my home, she was working on potty training. Aaand that set her off.

This is almost a daily routine. I'm so tired of it. She's either threatening to go to my command or to take me to court. When I'm not even in the wrong. She's doing all of this in front of the kids as well. I keep my lawyer paid well at this point.

I don't even know what can be done about this? Something needs to happen.

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