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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve never lost a child, but I did lose my young nephew less than a year ago. He was my first “baby” (born several years before my own child), I loved him so. I don’t dare compare my grief to that of his mother (my sister), but I think about him every day, and often wish I had more time with him. It’s been the hardest loss I’ve ever experienced, and I’ve lost many in my family.

My sister is still early in her grief, and she expresses anguish all the time at being a part of this “club” that nobody ever wants to be in. She is learning to coexist with joy (she has another child) and pain.

I wish you peace, and peace to all the other parents who’ve experienced the loss of a child.[/quote]

Your grief losing a beloved nephew is real and you also have to carry the pain that your sister is going through, and that is tremendous. My niece is now 21, and she was the first. I took her everywhere, she was always with me. My love for her is the same as if she were my own. There’s no measurement of love. I am so sorry. I fully empathize with your sister because I felt the same, at the time. As time goes on, it becomes a silent part of existence. Please let her know that I’m thinking of her and her boy right now and I am sorry. I just thought right now that if there is a heaven, these children find each other (wouldn’t that be beautiful).  [/quote]

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