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[quote=Anonymous]Seems there are many of us who lost babies late term, soon after birth or even later. A few of us have shared kind words in the paranormal thread. Our common tie is that we never forget them and despite having children, we never let go of those we lost. It is a very lonely club, especially when many years have passed. I personally compartmentalize and live my life having a profound understanding that joy and sadness can coexist. Someone told me this 13 years ago as I struggled with overwhelming joy for DS and the  heartbreaking loss of his twin. I couldn’t figure out a way to ever be the optimistic and joyful person I once was. The coexistence comment resonated so deeply. I was paralyzed by thoughts of protection, is he afraid and lost. He can’t possibly be in a better place when being in my arms is the safest place for him. I’m sure you all feel this way. Join in and and maybe we can all become new friends and share thoughts in a safe, anonymous forum.

Let’s see how it goes...if it’s too painful and no one joins in, I’ll delete the topic. I did not want to post this in General Parenting Discussion, seems inappropriate and our circumstances shouldn’t damper those who’ve thankfully never experienced this loss. [/quote]

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