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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are really friends, I see no problem with it.  But if you're still attracted to the person, or they to you, it's playing with fire.  If you're genuinely happy for them when they get married, if you relate to them the same way as you do other friends, fine.  If you're secretly hoping they still carry a flame for you, or you see them as your "one that got away," then you should not be friends.

Sometimes you break up with someone because you don't really like them that much--you learn that they are a liar or a jerk or untrustworthy--or because the only thing you had in common was chemistry.  You should not stay friends with those people.  Sometimes you break up with someone because you're not really attracted to them, but you like them fine as a person.  You can stay friends with those people.  [/quote]

I think it would be awkward to be chit chatty friends with someone you once had a serious, hot and heavy romance with.

I agree that if there was a lack of physical attraction from the get go then it is easier to be "just friends".[/quote]

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