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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why dwell in the past. If you aren't with that person it really doesn't mean much.

I always feel bad for the people still bothering with a first spouse.  I've seen more than a few that messed up their 2nd marriages when they should have moved on.[/quote]

If you had kids together there's really no way around having contact with former spouse.  It is best for the kids (and your own sanity) if you can be cordial, even friendly, but having an active friendship/relationship? No.  That's a bad idea for most people.  But if you're married and have an ongoing friendship with an ex you were married to but had no kids with or only dated is a whole different kettle of fish.  It wasn't until years into my marriage to my second wife that I found out she had (has?) a close friendship with her high school/college boyfriend.  I've told her how uncomfortable this makes me but she was dismissive and minimized it although she said she has now distanced herself from him, but there's no way of confirming if she's being truthful. [/quote]

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