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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have plenty of time to figure your sexuality out. There's no need to choose a label and feel stuck with it forever. I generally identify as bisexual and have since I was a teenager. I know that it's more complicated than that, and at this point I just kind of go with the flow. I'm attracted to I'm attracted to, I love who I love. The labels really don't matter. [/quote] Thank you that's exactly how I feel, but all of my friends around me know so fast and I don't understand that.[/quote]

I am 39 and I remember always assuming that other people around me had things down when I didn’t...they knew who they had crushes on at your age, they knew where they wanted to go to college by mid high school, they knew what they wanted to major in, they knew what career they wanted to have...it always felt like I took longer...now that I’m older I realize that while yes some of them know immediately, most of them are still figuring it out like you, but they are saying an answer...because it’s easier to answer than to say “I don’t know”—it’s like when a grown up asked you at age 6 what you wanted to be when you grow up....how many of those kids that say Fireman will actually become a fireman? Hardly any! They’re just saying it because it’s what is important to them right then and there and why not just say it.

So focus more on yourself and less on what other people are saying about themselves. Good luck! [/quote]

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