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[quote=Anonymous]I've grown up thinking that I was straight, you know, liking guys. But then I started having feelings for this girl who I'm friends with, and now I'm really confused. Thinking back on it, I've only had a few crushes about 3 or 4 people in the past (not counting the girl now). I usually don't find random guys attractive, but I've started finding more girls attractive.

However, here's the thing, I know I'm not lesbian, and I'm pretty sure I'm not bisexual. In addition, the other day my friend and I were talking about this, and she thinks that I'm demisexual. (Which means that you only feel sexually attracted to a person once you've formed a bond with them). The only issue is, my friend explained it a little differently: that you grow up thinking you're straight, and are not looking for relationships/craving them. And also the blanket definition. This sounded like me, but I feel like (after watching several youtube videos) that it may not be me.

So lately I've been pretty confused, and I don't know what to do.

Also I think the girl I like might be straight, but I don't know how to ask her.

If anyone can help me (primarily with the first issue), and maybe give me ideas or feedback, I would appreciate it. I'm just really confused an I could use the support.  [/quote]

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