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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like she is hearing bragging/or judgement in your comments about property, vacations, cars even if that isn't your intent. You can either decide you aren't a good friend match anymore, or you can focus on the stuff you do have in common and like about her. [/quote] THIS. My sense is that you aren't talking about YOUR property, car, vacations, or house. My sense is that you're saying -- oh such and such new hotel or vacation spot sounds great. She's hearing it/choosing to hear it as judgment because she assumes that you will go to said place and because she likely can't (or can't without great planning/sacrifice), she's reacting with -- oh that sounds dumb, what's the big deal about a 5 star resort, you're not sitting in the room all day etc.[/quote]
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