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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This kind of bugs me.  If people I'm closest to are going, I'll make more of an effort to go.  [/quote]

Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but I find it rude for someone to base their attendance at a kid's birthday party on the rest of the guest list.[/quote]

I actually do exactly the opposite as PP.  (I think PP is being kind of a mean girl by only going to a kids' birthday party if her friends are going.)  If I see that a party is not well attended, I'll make an extra effort to go.  We had a party for a kid that my child didn't know particularly well, and I saw that there were not a lot of kids that had RSVPed yes.  (I think there was a big sports tournament that day or something like that.)  It was a little inconvenient for us, but I worked out schedule so we could go.  I turned out that basically no one showed up for the party, so I was really glad we had gone.  The boys are now pretty good friends.  
The guest list also helps with coordinating car pools, which allows some kids to go if their parents might have a conflict.  
For those reasons, I like it when the guest list is shown.  I don't think anyone will judge you for a poor attendance given the time of year.  (Anyone that judged you for a poor attendance at any time of year is sort of a jerk.)
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I do the same.  If it's inconvenient to go and I would otherwise say "no," but then notice that a lot of people are RSVPing "no," I make sure DC gets there.  [/quote]

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