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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend of 6 months is amazing. She fits me so well and is an amazing person. We are older and have talked about where we see things headed - we both want marriage and kids. Her lease is up, so I asked her if she wants to move in with me. She said no, fearing moving in too quickly will allow us to become complacent with the situation. She isn’t looking to take that next step without getting engaged first. I understand her side, but feel living together will not only make us a stronger couple, but will help us really see if this relationship is forever. I believe you have to live with someone to really know if you can live with them longterm. She is not budging, and I feel six months is too soon to make such a huge commitment. [/quote]

You are correct, 6 months is too soon to get so serious (either moving in together or engagement). You offered and she said no. Accept it. Over time, as things progress, she will gradually start leaving things there (toothbrush, clothes, make up) and soon enough you will find yourself in a de facto living together situation. You need to back off and let it happen or you will scare her away.[/quote]

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