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[quote=Anonymous]It is hard to know from your post who the problem is.

It is possible that you are very harsh, even emotionally abusive towards your children and your husband is reacting to that.

I have a sister in law who is very emotionally abusive to her kids but she also loves them dearly and the kids would say she loves them and is a good mom, they desperately want her approval.

It seems like from your husbands response that it isn't just this one incident that he is reacting to, but a pattern of who he believes you act towards the kids. Also the tone and specific words and broader context could make your statement to your child either completely appropriate or completely abusive.

We have no way to know if he is way off base or not. You are not a good judge of your own actions and there are some red flags in your post.

Have you and your husband done any couple counselling? It sounds like a neutral third party would be helpful to assess and provide some guidance about common ground

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