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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ILs have a pool in their subdivision. They make a huge deal about everyone swimming in the pool. My husband always makes a huge deal about ME swimming in the pool. The pool is great for DH, great for the kids. It’s far too chlorinated and cold for my enjoyment. I love to sit and chit chat with ILs ( who don’t swim in the pool they demand everyone else swim in) and watch the kids swim. I just don’t wish to swim myself. But DH and his parents are incessant about my swimming in the pool! If I don’t pack my suit, DH gets upset. If I pack it and don’t swim, everyone is constantly yelling at me to “get in, the water’s great” “you’ll feel better in the water” “just come in!” I’m tired of repeating no. I’m tired of having to change into a bathing suit. I’m tired of the argument if forget my suit. I’m tired of the pestering. How can I shut them down for good?[/quote] Point out that they aren't swimming either. [/quote]
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