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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you the husband or wife? What's with this spouse BS? Also, you say they speak another language. Cultural expectations may come into play here. Has little to do with income. [/quote] NP here. The problem is that DCUM is about 80% female and the female population has very distinct gender bias and follow a lot of stereotypes. In general, the men are wrong, the women are right. The women do all the heavy lifting and do 90% of the work for the family. The men do very little to support the family other than bring in income. Yada yada yada. Also, there are many biases about wives and their in-laws vs husbands and their in-laws. In many cases, you'll get completely different answers depending on if the OP is the husband or the wife. If you are trying to get a more balanced response, you eliminate the gender issue from the equation so that you eliminate the gender bias that hits more than half of the posts on DCUM.[/quote]
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