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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to go somewhere neither have lived. Is there a town or small city that is halfway between? [/quote]

There's a larger town half way between with a population of 60,000. Better than 8,000 but still tiny compared to the city where there are 1.6 million people.

It's worth considering though as a compromise - OP[/quote]

Could you get a weekend home in the larger town half way between?

I wonder what her fantasy is of how life would be if she moved "home" though.  Does she think she'd get childcare help from her family?   Are her parents getting up in age and want her help and she wants to help them?  Does she have anxiety about using mass transit at night where you are now?  Does she secretly feel insecure in the city among very accomplished people and think she'll feel better about herself in a small town?  These are all issues to explore before moving back there.

I wish you'd posted in the winter - I would have suggested getting a summer house to see how that goes.[/quote]

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