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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don’t need to get married. My kid doesn’t need a step dad. My marriage was terrible and I dont ever want to be stuck like that again. I frankly, am not keen on marriage either. He recognizes his role in the break up of his marriages. I think it is the second one that caused him to never want to do it again. They dated for many years and things changed as soon as they got married.

The thing is, husband, stepdad are all labels. We act like we are already married. He parents my child. We are a family and treat each other as family. I guess what I want is a commitment and it doesn’t have to be marriage. He says he is as committed as he can be, but cannot make lifetime promise- that he doesn’t know he can keep. And those who do get married, just get divorced. He says we could be together 2 more years or 20. Who knows.

He is honest, always has been, and that is good.

Don’t know what I am looking for here. I am happy with him and neither one of us are looking to get out. 
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