Reply to He makes me forget my name when he looks at me

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "He makes me forget my name when he looks at me"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]You’re not ready for a relationship; you didn’t “ruin” anything because this was never, ever going to work out with you at this stage of life, in your state of mind. You are simply not in a place for it. So you need to let that go and stop living in regret; see this as a wake-up call that you need to seek help with a good therapist to help you understand what’s going on with you.

I’m going to reflect back to you what I got from your post. You’ve been with this guy a month, which is an incredibly short time, so you actually don’t really know him at all; you only know the way he made you feel (which you describe in such a highly dramatic, feet way, way off the ground manner).

You’re operating like someone with PTSD: alarms blaring, heart screeching when in reality you’re just starting to get to know a new guy you have chemistry with. You need to dial down the drama. Quite frankly, you sound like an over-written harlequin romance. I’m sorry to be so blunt, but you need to hear this and snap the F out of it.

You break up with this guy, you don’t know why...and then when he doesn’t take you back...suddenly you know how you feel and that you won’t do it again?? Why should he believe that? How can you even believe yourself? He’s known you a month, and he’s already been up and down the roller coaster with you; he is doing the right thing I’m not taking you back, for himself AND for you. You need help; you don’t sound stable, at least in this aspect of your life.

Seek some counseling and stop beating yourself up. Obviously if you were in a place for a healthy relationship, this wouldn’t have happened in the first place. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics