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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean 'this is about her and not the kids'?

Is new guy good to kids?

If he is, let her move providing you/they can afford flights or travel. This is life. Is she a good mom?

I knew a dick dad who refused and so he got custody until the kids were 12 and then they moved to moms province and barely spoke to him again. They were 6 & 9 when it happened.[/quote]

OP is there father and sounds like he loves his kids.

Mom's boy toy has character strikes against him.

Anyone who becomes an affair partner to a married person with kids is an ass who does not deserve respect or understanding.[/quote]

Yes yes. We know. Scorched earth.

However, in REALITY, you have a situation where a parent with joint custody is remarrying and considering moving. Saying "you do not deserve respect or understanding" is not going to help solve that problem in the slightest. Whether OP's ex is a good mom and whether her fiance is good to the kids is very relevant for how to act. For example, if she is a terrible mother (aside from the affair, which is not by definition terrible parenting, just terrible wifing) and the fiance is mean to the kids, OP should fight like hell to get primary custody of his kids and prevent the move. If that is not the case, OP and his ex need to work out a custody plan that is in the best interests of the children. 100% of decisions by the OP should be made from that perspective, regardless of what his ex does or does not do.[/quote]

Boy toy should move to op and exdw. It's ridiculous for OP to have to endure a long distance relationship with his kids because mom had an affair and remarried that guy[/quote]

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