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[quote=Anonymous]I dated a man in his 50s when I was 23. It was fun at first, but got boring quickly. We just didn't have anything in common. I wanted to go experience life, while he already had and just wanted a quiet life. I thought about marrying him at the time but now I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like with someone so old. Even my relationships with men 5-10 years older had age-related problems.

Now I'm in my 30s and a guy 10 years younger than me is interested in me. Yea, he's hot (really, really, really hot....mmm, abs!), but he's just....immature. Not in a bad way- he's more mature than most mid-20s guys- but there are still insecurity and immaturity issues. He needs a lot of reassurance. Plus we have different habits and lifestyles- for example, he wants to text and send selfies all the time, while I'm not really interested in that. He still does a lot of "young guy" stuff like playing video games for hours on end, which is kind of a turn-off for me at this point in my life.

So I don't find it creepy, but I think in most cases it doesn't work out. There are, of course, exceptions, but as a general rule I think there are too many generational and maturity differences. Then again, Hollywood actors probably aren't the most mature people :)[/quote]

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