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[quote=Anonymous]This is a sign of her being impolitic, not autistic. Big, big difference.

13 is a hard age. In reality, it might be better for the kids to not have know full situation about the firing, although clearly they would logically surmise what happened. Then the gossiping would be more gossip than facts.

It sounds like, given her propensity to do this, you need to identify situations where it could happen and proactively tell her she should keep certain things to herself. I know you can't do every one, but some. So, you need to say things like, "As you know, you have a new coach now, one that we feel is better for your team. But, you still are very involved in Sport X, and may know others who are okay with his/her coaching style. It's important to keep your feelings to yourself."

Of course, depending on the level of temper issues, you may have other responsibilities to protect future athletes under this coach's charge, but I'm assuming there are no concerns there (not physical or verbal abuse).

You may also want to consider what you tell and don't tell your daughter. I have one child I would share more with than the other (both same age). One is just more trustworthy. I hope that will change, but right now I have to deal with the way it is.[/quote]

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