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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whenever we bring it up to MIL/FIL, they brush it off and say they love both but that we shouldn't have had kids one year apart if we weren't prepared to have them be judged off each other. [/quote] The whole situation you describe is terribly sad and troubling, and given their appalling response to your concerns, I am with you in thinking it best to cut off contact. Those are the kinds of hurts that your 15-year-old will never forget, and he needs to know you've got his back, and he needs to be protected from such gross insensitivity. I can't believe they want to put it on you, that you "shouldn't have had kids one year apart if..." It seems pretty clear they're never going to change. Do you think an ultimatum would work - tell them it has been intolerable and terribly hurtful to your family, and you are going to cut them off if they ever say or do something similarly insensitive again?[/quote]
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