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Reply to "How to ask my 14 yo DD if she's gay"
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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with all the people who are saying "dont ask" but I guess what's missing is the reason. For me, it would be too exposing anyone would be understandably uncomfortable. I think your intuition, even in posting this Q here, is what matters. It is on your radar... you are NOT the "dense mother" because you are getting the messages. So you dont have a conclusive answer... she might not either. But she is testing you, and making sure you are "safe." It sounds like you are doing well (at least, from how you describe it). When I think back to my coming out process, and dealing with the extended family, i think it would have been great to know that I had an advocate in my mom. My grandma wished I had longer hair and wore skirts... I wish my Mom would have told her (nicely) to shut it and stuck up for me. Instead, I ended up feeling like I let the whole family down because I was different. Anyway, good luck to you and your family. [/quote]
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