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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi all, I’m looking for advice. My elementary school aged DD didn’t make travel soccer this year, her first tryout. She’s really sad about it, as she loves soccer, and is [b]viewed by the coaches and other parents as the best player on her rec team. To add insult to injury, she has a late birthday, so tried out with older girls; meanwhile several of her rec teammates made the younger travel team. [/b] I am looking for options for her as she really enjoyed the travel tryouts, particularly playing with other girls who love soccer as much as she does. Does anyone have recommendations for other DC area “travel” leagues? I saw PPS has tryouts June 16, but I’d hate to bring her there, only for her to not make the team again.[/quote] The bolded above points out a couple of things: 1. The difference between Rec and Travel 2. The role that Relative Age Effect (RAE) plays in youth sport selection. Travel soccer is based on birth year age groups so it makes sense that your daughter, in a rec environment, succeeded based on being older because Rec uses school age and not birth year. So when your kid tried out she was smaller and younger and possibly less experienced than the rest of the players. So, this is the why it didn't work out. Now for the what you can do about it. 1. Understand this and take to heart that your DD is just a bit behind the curve right now. This does not mean that she is not or will not be a good soccer player. It means that she has some work ahead to catch up. 2. Stay positive and keep going to tryouts. Contact coaches directly, even after the tryout season is over. There are spots for kids who want to play. Believe that. 3. Get her some skills training. Sign up for some summer clinics like Coerver or HP or look for weekday camps that travel clubs will even host. Good luck[/quote]
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