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[quote=Anonymous]Dear DCUM- My best friend of years has been involved in an affair with a married woman for 4ish years. I guess the mistress couldn't deal with the guilt of lying to her husband, so she separated and is going to finalize her divorce soon. His relationship with his DW is according to him lacking passion and all the other things that make marriages great, etc etc. He wants to ask his wife for a divorce but has no idea how to start the conversation given there is no actual conflict between them. She also has a history of depression and was seeing a therapist for a while. I have told him its unfair to just bring this up randomly and that he should discuss these issues with her, if nothing else to make sure the marriage cannto be saved. I think he owes it to her to be kind and thoughtful, its not her fault he is over her... And I think its unfair he is stringing her along while having this other relationship. Most shocking and sad: his wife thinks everything is fine and other than sporadic complaints that she feels he is distant, happy in her marriage.

Any advice for someone who wants to separate/divorce as to how to start the conversation? Can anyone share their experiences? anything you wish you could have done better/different? Thank you![/quote]

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