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[quote=Anonymous]He was really excited and ready to have a kid.  In fact, he has been more ready and willing to have a second, but I have been hesitant to have another child with him. I forgot to say in my original post, I really love this man.  But his attitude brings the entire house down.

As for his job, it is stressful for him, but he is secure - a partner in a Midsize firm - he is compensated very well, and his hours are reasonable.  It’s the same w the job though. If it’s too stressful he can look for a better fit.  I stay home, which was very much a joint decision that he encouraged  - and I often suggest that I go back to work so he can take a lower paying job if that is what would make him happy.  I have marketable skills and can and am willing to contribute, but he enjoys the lifestyle we both provide for the family (on his end that is essentially no housework, no errands on the weekend, etc.)

The thing is - he has no idea what would make him happy and Doesn’t want to do the work to get there.  I’m 36 now and I feel like I’m growing up and learning what I want out of life and he is stuck in this negative pattern that he is unwilling or unable to Get out of.  Instead he would rather blame me or our son. [/quote]

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