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[quote=Anonymous]Do you forgive and let go? I have 2 brothers who are both in their thirties. I became a stay at home mom with 2 little ones back to back, moved to a tiny apartment in another state, no family support and my DH at the time was working a stressful new job with a lot of hours. Both my mother and brothers visited me during this time and although there were wonderful moments. My mother took opportunities to make me feel terrible while she stayed with us but also helped a tremendous amount with the kids. One of my brothers who I guess had some resentment built up towards me, also took this visit as an opportunity to unleash his anger at me during an exchange. It was crazy. My mom lashed out and then my brother who was also there "ganged up" on me verbally. I was completely blindsided and already felt very "down" as a new mom with a baby and toddler. My question is, they really kicked me at my lowest. Should I forgive and let it go?[/quote]
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