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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry that you have such a terrible mom, grandma and brother. It is clear that they are messed up. To not show up for her own daughter's wedding? That is terrible, and to use so much emotional black mail on you? To make you a scape goat bcs of her issues with your Dad? Are they all narcissists? Did she blame you when you were a child for her marriage and adult problems? Of course it hurts you that your mom basically cut your out of her life, how could it not? You are not a robot to just forget it and it is hard to move on. Just don't blame yourself, that is exactly what they want, they thrive from your feeling guilty. I can't imagine what would you feel guilty about, but given that you are writing and kind of begging, they are successful in their emotional blackmail. If you stopped all of it, that would make them unhappy, but please find the will to stop. You are not at fault, they are nuts. So, make a conscious effort to move on with your life. They are not worth it, no loving mom would do this and it is clear that there is some mental illness happening there. Try to enjoy the good that you have in your life. Good luck![/quote]

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