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[quote=Anonymous]I could have written OP's post almost verbatim about 9 YO DD. As far as I can tell, the issue is that she's introverted and a bit awkward socially and therefore has trouble making "deep" connections with other kids. Easy to get along with, but doesn't form bonds easily. We try to address this by: * Proactively setting up activity-based play dates (going to do "x"). She does better with these than with "what do we do now?" play. * Getting her involved in extracurriculars that she really likes--similar interests seem to help bridge the gap. * Keeping in close contact with friends outside of school--family friends's kids, kids from prior neighborhood, etc. Gives her confidence and a feeling of security. Not sure whether this is the "right" approach (if there is such a thing), but it seems to help her feel engaged and also get the social experience.[/quote]
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