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Reply to "I am exhausted with the amount of time DH expects me to spend with HIS family. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can compromise here and go to both but make it clear to DH that you can't spend all day there and drive separately if you need to go. For the overnight, bring your books with you and study at the Air BNB. The part about your post that bothers me is that you refer to them as "HIS" family. You married your DH so they are your family too. It seems like DH is trying to include you, which IS reasonable - you are his wife. Given that your family is in another country having a supportive family around seems like a huge plus even though your social tendencies differ. [/quote] Making her feel welcome is reasonable, trying to guilt and coerce her into attending every event when she doesn't want to? Not reasonable.[/quote]
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