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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH of 12 years has not been interested in sex for over 7 years.  He literally recoils when I reach for him. I stay with him because of the kids and because in every other respect we have a good relationship, and, also, I'm scared of change.  Leaving my husband would hurt my kids, my parents, his family, ugh... 
For the past year, I have secretly lusted after a particular guy.  It felt very safe and the guy didn't know, and I didn't really talk to him that often.  Recently, over the past 3 months, we began talking more and more, and he confided that he is in a sexless marriage, too.
And, he is interested in me.  We made a plan to meet one day, during the day, at his place, but I backed out at the last minute.  I can't stop thinking about him, and the fact that I would love to have sex with someone again.  Should I just go for it? I keep going back and forth.[/quote]

If you do this, it is very likely to destroy your marriage. Even if you think that your husband doesn't care about having sex with you, it is extremely likely that he cares very much about you having sex with someone else. Do you want to divorce? If so, divorce and then find an unencumbered partner. If not, tell your husband that you cannot take the lack of intimacy any longer and that something needs to change.[/quote]

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