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[quote=Anonymous]My cousin has a DH who lives out of state about 4 days/week. She's a SAHM with 3 kids. When he is home he's pretty involved, but she's essentially a single mom when he's gone. They met in graduate school so she's not a trophy wife either. She has a cleaning person, someone who mows the lawn, and her mom lives with them which is obviously a big help with chlld care. Her husband makes plenty of money (by working in a big city away from their home) and I think part of the deal for having him away was that she gets to spend some of it for help around the house. Taking care of kids on your own is hard work and it sounds like you do a lot of extras on top of that. I wouldn't feel bad about spending money on help, especially with your HHI. Hopefully your DH doesn't see a problem with it either. [/quote]
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