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[quote=Anonymous] I would assume that married adults make family decisions about whether it is best for one parent to be home with the kids, and likewise they make joint decisions as to whether to move or make any other big decisions.  There are many pressures in the world, financial, those of being a hands-on parent, and many more.  Also, family decisions are made based on issues other than pressures as well. The parties’ happiness? Anticipated security?  All sorts of things.  I can’t imagine what my response would be  if I were a stay at home parent and my husband came home and said that he had the right to make final decisions about huge family issues, like where we live, because we had decided together that it would be best for one of us to be home with the kids.  That approach pretty much assumes that, and being home with kids, be working spouse is somehow accommodating the spouse providing the hands-on childcare.  That the at home spouse in a fact works for the dominant, prioritized spouse who works outside of the home.  To me, that’s just crazy.  FWIW, I am a WOHP mom with a time intensive job. [/quote]

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