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[quote=Anonymous]At the end of the day she was trying to shelter you. She didn't do it the way you would have liked but it was coming from a good place. She wasn't kicking YOUR family out, just your friend. Does she understand how close this friend is? My family would have likely shooed a friend away as well just because you don't assume a friend would be there in the thick of it.

As another PP said the last thing you need is some massive family fight right now. Tell your husband that even though you understand MIL came from a good place, it bothered you and he needs to acknowledge and respect how you are feeling. But then try to let it go. No good will come of this.

AND you are two weeks out from birth. It might not feel like it but you are crazy right now. Hormones, sleep deprivation, new crazy unconditional love. That creates a crazy storm inside your head that you don't totally comprehend until a few months later. See if you still feel this way in 6 months.

And just remember this for the next baby. If its still bothering you then just don't invite MIL/Mom to the hospital next time and have DH filter visitors next time.[/quote]

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