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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your MIL did overstep. Especially with the follow up FB message banishing your friend. How awkward. But where was your DH? I also think this message should be delivered by him. "Mom, you should not have sent Susie's friend away AND then FB messaged her. Susie really wanted to see her and they had discussed this ahead of time". Then that's it. If she apologizes, just say "yes I was confused and a little hurt when Susie never showed up to visit. She told me later you'd messaged her to stay away. I wish you hadn't." END. Do not argue about it. If you MIL is defensive and never apologizes, just move on. But also don't allow her to be in the delivery room again. Your DH should have run better interference with his mother day of.[/quote] None of us knew it happened until my friend told me a week later. MIL told us that she came and then left when she heard I wasn’t doing well.[/quote]
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