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Reply to "How do you know if your marriage is dead beyond repair—and do you stay for kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just agree you'll be like 2 ships passing in the night. A glorified roommate situation. That way, nobody has to pay for 2 households, the kids are in 1 place, the kids see you as a "united" front, you can still do family events (even it it takes every ounce of strength to do so in a civilized manner) which is super important to the kids, maintain normalcy, etc. [/quote] What about the emotional and physical intimacy part? He will not agree to an open marriage.[/quote] Do you want to see other people? For me, I was so focused on the kids, trying to stay "normal" and not let on to the kids, getting a job (and doing well at it), keeping up with the household routine/kids's activities/daily grind that I had NO interest (or time) in seeing other people. I just really focused on things, became really present with my kids, engaged, etc. Maybe in a few years, but for now this is how it is. YMMV.[/quote]
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