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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How close do your ILs live? The only success to my IL relationship is that they live a plane ride away, so we don't see them that frequently. When we do, we play nice b/c it's just easier that way. [/quote] We are a plane ride away, which is why I feel there has to be a way to make this work. By the end of the trip (any length) they've come to us with years worth of grievances. By the end it becomes too much and DH and I eventually lose it. We don't cause a scene, we "bite back" in the sense that I vocalize that their opinions are unwelcome and DH seconds this. They flip out, massive family issue. Rinse. Repeat. [/quote]
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