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Reply to "DH married me to stand up to his mom"
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[quote=Anonymous]If you split, keep in mind your kids’ time with DH will necessarily = time with his mom, as in all visitation weekends will likely be at her house (assuming she lives close - sounds like she does). Also I don’t think keeping a marriage as a facade is easy. Do you want to show your kids that spouses are roommates on separate sides of the house? What happens when friends invite you over - does he make an excuse not to go every time? Or do you go and pretend the whole time? Living a lie is going to be harder than what sounds like an amicable divorce. While you’re happily leaving and before you tell anyone including MIL work with lawyers to get child custody, child support, alimony, assets etc 100% settled.[/quote]
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