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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like the split will be amicable. I'd explore seeing a mediator to get a separation agreement in place. Get things sorted out now, while things are going smooth, and before MIL or future girl fiend gets involved. [/quote]

Thank you. That's a great idea.  I was thinking that I'll take the two top floors with the kids and he'll take the guest room/space in the basement. I'm sure he'll agree to it because he moved there last week and that's the kids play space/area so the kids go up and downstairs.

It's amicable.  I was crying when he told me and feeling very sorry for myself ("why couldn't he just love me?") but then I realized that I had really wanted to have kids and now I have two so I have nothing to complain about either.  And I couldn't ask for a better dad.  &, He's a terrible husband anyway -- he was never affectionate or romantic -- but hindsight is 20/20.  He never remembered my birthday or Valentine's day and was very anti-PDA to the point of making it seem like we weren't together (many guys asked me out when I was at parties with him).  I'm still in a daze a week later and canceled plans with mutual friends this weekend instead of facing them but I don't want to be married to a guy who doesn't love me either. And, it's weird, but just in the past week, I feel like I don't love him anymore either and I was a very attentive wife before.

There was no cheating involved so I feel like he was respectful.   He says it just "hit" him that he only married me to get out and told me as soon as he realized it.  I don't know what he read on this site but he says it was:

http://www.controllingparents.com/

It's funny how quick you can fall out of love.[/quote]

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