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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm what most people would consider sexually aggressive.   Reasons women have not liked me

1.  They think I'm after their guy.  I've never cheated or been the other woman (this was more in college though) 
2.  They think I'm faking it. Nope, I really enjoy sex. 
3.  They think I was either sexually traumatized or have low self steem and seek out male approval.   Neither are true. 
4.  [b]This likely doesn't have to do with my sexual aggression, but I tend to get along with men better than women.[/b]
5. My favorite and one that I've only seen once or twice...that I'm cheapening the feminism movement/I'm an embarrassment to feminists.  Never understood that argument

It used to bother me when I was younger.  But then I realized the beauty of being in charge of your sexuality.  And DH certainly doesn't complain haha. [/quote]

This says much, MUCH more about you than it does about anyone else. If that's the attitude you approach life with, of course you're going to encounter friction. What an incredibly weird thing to say [/quote]

It's not a weird thing to say at all.  A lot has to do with social constructs, but on the whole, men tend to be more direct, and women tend to be more passive-aggressive.  For some women, it's far easier to deal with men, even men at their worst, because at least they know where they stand.  It's far trickier navigating the social dynamics of a group of women than it is navigating the social dynamics of a group of men.  I don't think it's biological.  I think it's how boys and girls are socialized.  And for some women, it's just far easier to deal with men, even very aggressive men, than it is to deal with the subtle aggression you find in groups of women.  There's a reason the term "mean girls" exist.

And I'm not PP.  I wouldn't say I get along with one sex better than the other, but I think it's definitely more straightforward dealing with men than it is with women.  I've also never seen quite the manipulation and group shunning of a woman from a group of men the way I've seen it from a group of women.  [/quote]

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