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[quote=Anonymous]I do not recommend it because from my sister's experience it did not end well.  I tried to advise against it, but she was very adamant she had to contact her.  Now she really regrets it though.  Very similar story including Ancestry.com.  It was heartbreaking to watch as my sister just felt very rejected by both her mother and her siblings who also didn't want to be contacted.  She contacted her birth mother on facebook, and her response was the meanest, nastiest thing I have ever read.  It ended with something like (summary) - [i]I'm so glad I gave you up because you are clearly an awful person who can't respect my privacy.  You turned my kids against me for contacting them via Ancestry.  You ruined my life again.  [/i]  This happened 3 years ago and my sister is still in therapy from it.

Why does she want to contact her birth mother if she was adamant to not be contacted?  Is it for a medical question?

I am also adopted and I have no desire to do anything of this.  I have my family and I don't need any more. [/quote]

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