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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, consider that the more people who love your daughter, and the more people she loves, in the world is a good thing.

Love isn’t a finite resource. It’s not a competition. What your ex is saying is hurtful, but I’m sure it’s at least one reason why he’s the ex. [/quote]

stop.  It's not just hurtful, it's abusive. The ex is not saying dC likes my girlfriend and we all like to spend my cuatodial time together.  ExH is saying, DC likes my gF better than BioMom and therefore GF should have more time, and BioMom less.

OP, as the biological parent you should have at least 50% custody.  Focus on making that time meaningful for you and your DC.  there is no such thing as a separate custodial right for GFs.  If your ex eants to spend his custodial time with gF and DC, there is nit much you can do about it.  Unfortunately, if your Ex wants to leave your DC in the custody of GF alone on his custodial time, there is also not much you can do about that.  Many divorced coues have a principle of "right of first refusal" in the custody avreement to prevent such situations.  this means that if a parent can't spend their custodial time with a child, they must offer it to the other parent first before leaving the child with a babysitter, girlfriend or boyfriend, etc. [/quote]

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