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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry OP. You did exactly what you were supposed to do, and you did the right thing for the child. Good for you. In terms of your marriage, I do think that you're right to seriously question going back. It sounds to me like you have married into a whole lot of deeply problematic relationships, of which your husband is very much a part. That won't be solved easily and this situation with your SIL has just uncovered/or highlighted what were probably already existing issues. If you want to work on your marriage then I think you will both need professional help in doing that. Fighting nastily, telling each other to "grow up", etc... are highly destructive marital habits. A healthy marriage would be able to weather disagreements or family challenges better than what you're experiencing (and perhaps contributing to). [/quote]
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